To perform the cross cradle hold, the mother should sit in a comfortable chair with good back support. Here are the steps: 1. Position the Baby: Place the baby on their side with their tummy facing the mother. 2. Support the Baby's Head: Use the hand opposite to the breast being used to support the baby's head and neck. 3. Guide the Breast: Use the other hand to guide the breast towards the baby's mouth, ensuring a good latch.